The Social Confidence Course

Learn the most important life skill you were never taught.

I'm going to show you how to master your social skills so you can learn how to talk to anyone, feel more confident, know what to say, and build the connections you deserve.

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You're one conversation away from changing your life.

Want the job?→You have to communicate your value.
Want the relationship?→You have to approach them.
Want better friendships?→You have to open up and connect.
Want the promotion?→You have to ask.

Think about it. Your life changes through conversations.

Inside the course

What's actually inside.

10 stages, each one building on the last. No jumping around, just a clear next step every time.

Stage 1
STAGE 01Overthinking & Social Anxiety

For when you feel anxious, overthink situations, or hold yourself back from talking to people.

Stage 2
STAGE 02Being Interesting

Never go blank when someone asks what you've been up to, and become someone people want to keep talking to.

Stage 3
STAGE 03Improve Your Speaking Skills

Sound clear, sure of yourself, and calm, even when you don't feel it.

Stage 4
STAGE 04How To Start Any Conversation

The exact way to open with a stranger, no weird lines, no overthinking, just a simple way in.

Stage 5
STAGE 05How To Keep The Conversation Going

Stop conversations dying after one question, the simple rule that keeps things flowing naturally.

Stage 6
STAGE 06How To Have Deeper Conversations

Start creating conversations that build a lasting connection, not just fill the silence.

Stage 7
STAGE 07How To Leave A Conversation

How to exit any conversation gracefully, without the awkward lingering or over-explaining.

Stage 8
STAGE 08How To Make Friends

Turn people you've just met into real friends, and build connections that actually last.

Stage 9
STAGE 09First Impressions & First Dates

Make a great first impression, and have a great first date.

Stage 10
STAGE 10Your Relationship Blueprint

Understand yourself deeply and get clear on what you actually want in a relationship.

Why I'm building this

Hi, I'm Tom.

Learning how to talk to people, put myself out there, and communicate with confidence has helped me build a personal brand of 700,000+ followers, become a journalist and presenter, and meet the person I'm now lucky enough to call my partner.

But I wasn't always confident socially. A lot of these skills were things I had to learn through experience, by putting myself in uncomfortable situations, making mistakes, and figuring out what actually works.

And that's why I built the Social Confidence Course. I kept hearing the same thing from you: "I know what to do, I just can't seem to actually do it."

There's no shortage of information online about confidence and communication. The problem is actually putting it into practice.

So I wanted to create the thing I wish I'd had when I was learning: a place to learn the skills, practise them in the real world, not just watch another video and hope it sticks.

Because becoming better at communication doesn't just make conversations easier. It can change who you meet, the opportunities you get, and ultimately, the life you build.

Imagine if you could...

Finally feel comfortable around people.

01

Walk Up And Start The Conversation.

Without rehearsing what you're going to say.

02

Know How To Keep It Going.

Even when your mind goes blank.

03

Stop Overthinking Every Interaction.

Instead of replaying it for days after.

04

Meet People Naturally.

Without it feeling forced or awkward.

05

Feel Comfortable Being Yourself.

Instead of performing a version of you.

06

Build Better Relationships.

The kind that actually last.

Questions

Before you join

How is this structured?
It's a self-paced course. Ten stages you work through in order, each one with real-world challenges built in. Watch whenever suits you.
Who is this for?
Anyone who wants to feel more comfortable talking to people, whether that's starting conversations, keeping them going, making friends, dating, or just feeling more like yourself around others.
What if I've already watched loads of social skills content?
Then this will probably feel different. It's not just more content to watch, it's built around actually practising what you learn, with real-world challenges after every stage, so you're using it, not just consuming it.
Is this just for dating?
No. Dating is one part of it, but most of the course is about general social confidence, friendships, conversations, and how you show up around people day to day.
How long does it take?
The videos are short and structured, and each stage has a few challenges to try in your own time. It's built to fit around a normal week, not take it over.
When do I get access?
You'll get an email as soon as the course opens.
Six months from now

You're no longer standing on the outside of the conversation wondering what to say.

You're talking. You're connecting. You're putting yourself out there, and it doesn't feel like performing anymore.

No spam. Just an email when the course is ready.